by Robin Roshkind, Esquire, West Palm Beach, Florida
It used to be called “custody”. It used to imply rightful possession of a child. It used to cause the other parent to be the “visiting” parent, or the “non custodial parent” who gets to “visit” with the child/ren. You can begin to see how this terminology used to cause undue fighting and voluminous litigation between parents.
The Florida legislature, in all their wisdom, finally changed the law several years ago. But bad habits die hard and sometimes I have clients revert back to the old language of the law. Like “primary residential parent”.
Last week in court, an opposing party called the child “my” child. The judge was quick to correct him by stating it is “a child of both of you. You, mister, do not own a child.” Public policy in Florida warrants that a child has a right to a relationship with both a mother and a father. That is why the custody language was changed.
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By Robin Roshkind, Esquire, West Palm Beach, Florida
Florida statutes talked about shared parental responsibility. The meaning behind it included things like keeping the other parent informed of the whereabouts of the children, allowing children to communicate with the other parent by unlimited telephone or internet access, informing the other parent of any medical emergencies, no disparagement or alienation of affection of the other parent and things that required joint decision making. Violations of this statute were to be brought to the court’s attention and the most severe recourse was a change in custody.
Florida laws also talked about custody and visitation. One parent was the primary residential parent and the other was the “visiting” parent.
With new statutes, the law now talks about SHARED PARENTING. More specifically, custody and parental responsibility is now a parenting plan, and visitation is now time sharing.
For reference, see Florida Statute 61.046(13) through my web site at www.familylawwpb.com.
The statute combines parental decision making with time sharing schedules, in the best interests of the children. If the parents cannot come to agreement on the issues or the parenting plan, then the court will have to micro manage the children. The parenting plan takes into consideration the reorganization of families to try to reduce post dissolution arguments.
If you have questions about this or other divorce topics, call one of the attorneys at the Firm at 561-835-9091 or click on the ROBIN ROSHKIND, P.A. web site at www.familylawwpb.com.