By Robin Roshkind, Esquire, West Palm Beach, Florida
You are involved in a full fledged divorce litigation case. Opposing counsel wants to take your deposition to find out just about everything. He/she can pretty much ask you anything, whether relevant to the case or not. Depositions are basically fishing expeditions for information that might lead to more information.
Some of the topics you will be asked about include the children, your ability to co parent, time sharing, your finances, your lifestyle, who you are dating, what you are spending, where you last vacationed, what you are driving, what you did with your expensive rolex, and just about anything else. Here is some advice in answering these sometimes touchy questions:
1. Remember that the judge is not present at this depo. You don’t have to convince anyone about anything.
2. Have an agreeable demeanor. If you don’t, it looks like you’ve got something to hide.
3. Don’t have diareha of the mounth. Keep your answers short and to the point.
4. Watch your body language, especially if the deposition is being video taped.
5. Don’t fidget, wring your hands, tug your hair, chew gum or wriggle.
6. Answer truthfully.
7. If all else fails, your answers should be “yes”, “no”, or “I don’t recall”.
For more information about this or other divorce topics, call one of the divorce lawyers at ROBIN ROSHKIND, P.A. at 561 835 9091 or click on the Firm’s web site at www.familylawwpb.com.