Time to Divorce is After the Holidays

By Robin Roshkind, Esquire, West Palm Beach, FL

Some folks still do it the old fashioned way…that is, staying together for the sake of the kids.  With the holidays having come and now gone, those who were unhappy, fighting, and miserable, during the holidays, and staying together just for the kids…now is the time to divorce!

Get your act together.  Find out about the family finances.  Get copies of those bank statements and credit card bills from 2014 and bring them in to see me.  The time is now.  By the end of January, it becomes tax preparation time.  You will have to gather financial information anyhow, so your spouse will not suspect you are preparing for divorce.  Keep it quiet until you get all your ducks in a row.  Preparing for a divorce is like being a private eye.  You need to set up before you do anything.

For advice on what will be needed or what your rights are, call or come in for a consultation.  You don’t have to take it anymore.  The holidays are over and it’s time to move forward.  See our web site at http://www.familylawwpb.com or call today for more information 561-835-9091.

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Divorce, Kids and Christmas

By Robin Roshkind, Esquire, West Palm Beach, Florida

Divorce is complex enough when there are children invloved, but it can get very stressful around holiday time.  Chances are this is the first time a divorcing couple truly has to share the kids.  There is only one Christmas Eve and one Christmas Day.  The obvious dispute is who gets what time sharing.

This becomes especially challenging when parents live far apart from each other or in different states.  The logistics get in the way.  Also, it may e too early in the divorce proceedings for there to be a court order.

The best way to handle holiday time sharing is by agreement of the parties.  If that is not possible even on a temporary basis, then court intervention will be necessary.   Remember, if an agreement is possible to somehow split the holidays, put it in writing and have booth you and your spouse sign.  For more information a bout this or other divorce topics call one of the divorce lawyers at 561 835 9091 or click on the firm’s web site at http://www.familylaw.com for more information.

BAD MARRIAGES GET WORSE DURING THE HOLIDAYS

By Robin Roshkind, Esquire, West Palm Beach, Florida

If you’ve married for love and the love has run out…or you married for money and the money has run out, changes are, you and your husband or wife are not the happily married couple everyone thinks.  With the holidays upon us, it can be especially difficult to keep smiling and pretending.

There are all sorts of marital stresses during the holidays.  First, consider the now very common blended families.  Children and ex spouses from another lifetime suddenly appear at your dining table.  Time sharing squabbles, airline delays, and disputed schedule changes are hard enough, but during the holidays, they all seem to magnify.

Second, consider the family budget. With the current state of the economy, holiday spending is a hot topic of dispute.  Even something so simple as when and where to shop can become major wars in a household already on edge.
Third, no rest for the weary takes the place of sexual intimacy in front of the fireplace.  Forgive me for being a grinch, but let’s get real here.  You do have a house full of people, right?

Lastly, closing out the year and having high hopes for the new year causes one to reflect.  Like those new year’s resolutions, if divorce is one of your aspirations, I am here to help get you through.  For more information, call one of the divorce lawyers at ROBIN ROSHKIND, P.A. at 561 835 9091 or click on the Firm’s web site at http://www.familylawwpb.com for more information.

Holidays are over…time for your future!

by Robin Roshkind, Esquire, West Palm Beach, Florida

It is time to think about your future…that is what New Year’s resolutions are right?  To lose weight, to make more money, to be nicer to the kids.  We all have unrealized expectations.  But you don’t have to stay in a bad marriage, and furthermore, you don’t have to wait for your spouse to do something about it first.  Take control of  your life, your finances, your future.

Speak to me or another divorce lawyer for INFORMATION.  Then you can make intelligent decisions about whether to stay or divorce.  If you take an affirmative step to control our own destiny, your future will fall into place.

For more information about divorces in Palm Beach County, Florida, call one of the lawyers at ROBIN ROSHKIND, P.A. at 561 835 9091 or click on the Firm’s web site at http://www.familylawwpb.com .

All I Want For Christmas Is A Divorce!

by Robin Roshkind, Esquire, West Palm Beach, Florida

It is on many couples’ wish list.  But several couples are afraid to admit it.  The marriage is over.  That’s harsh!  Especially during the holidays.  We don’t want to spoil it for the kids, the family, ourselves, etc.

But when the holidays are over, the left overs eaten, the tree out with the garbage, and decorations put away and the undesireable gifts returned, what do you have left but a broken marriage and being attached to someone you cannot stand.

Do something about it in the New Year.  Take a proactive role in your future.

For more information about divorce and divorce topics, procedures, laws in Palm Beach County, Florida, call one of the divorce lawyers at ROBIN ROSHKIND, P.A. at 561 835 9091 or click on the Firm’s web site at http://www.familylawwpb.com.

During Divorce, Do NOT Take Children Away…

by Robin Roshkind, Esquire, West Palm Beach, Florida

If you are in divorce proceedings in Palm Beach County, and wish to take your children away to visit family or on vacation for the holidays, or simply wish to relocate across state lines, do not take the children away, without the express  knowledge  of and written permission of the other parent, or if that is not obtainable, without a court order.

If you do, the other parent, reasonable or not,  can have legal cause to fight you for what is now called majority time sharing but what is, de facto, custody.

Unless you have sole decision making legally regarding your children, you must consult and consider the other parent or you become the wrongdoer with consequences.

For more information about this or other divorce topics in Palm Beach County, Florida, call one of the divorce lawyers at ROBIN ROSHKIND, P.A. at 561 835 9091 or click on the Firm’s web site at http://www.familylawwpb.com.

Holidays Can Be Hard For “Bouncing Ball” Children

by Robin Roshkind, Esquire, West Palm Beach, Florida

In addition to the Holiday Season being difficult for those husbands and wives who find themselves in failing marriages, the holidays can be hard for the “bouncing ball” children, who bounce back and forth between divorced parents.   They want to share the excitement and joys of the season with each parent they love, but they are forced by the divorce to split the time up.  Often parents fight about time sharing in front of the children causing them high anxiety and literally taking the joy out of the moment.

Divorced parents may also have new families and spouses…extended families can be a source of comfort or confusion for the child of a divorce.  If adults can start acting as such and put the child first, alot of the tension will dissipate.  For more information about this or other divorce topics, call one of the divorce lawyers at ROBIN ROSHKIND, P.A. at 561 835 9091 or click on the Firm’s web site at www.familylawwpb.com.