By Robin Roshkind, Esquire, West Palm Beach, Florida
The shrinks always tell us that what attracted the two of you to each other in the first place, is the very thing you can’t stand about each other at the end of the marriage…EXCEPT SEX. Sometimes couples fall back into the sex trap, causing conflicting feelings, derailing divorce proceedings that should be progressing, and mixing up the kids.
Sex with your ex is an all around bad idea. It has been used as a power play, or ploy is a better word, to gain advantage in divorce court. It has been used as a convenience, a familiar site, or worse, for abuse and control upon the other person.
If you are thinking about having sex with your ex while in divorce proceedings, seek professional help through marriage counseling or psychotherapy. Or if your spouse or former spouse “just makes it happen” in the lust of the moment, at least be aware that you are being used. Stay away from denial. Remember the sun will shine again tomorrow. For more information about this or other hot divorce topics, call one of the lawyers at ROBIN ROSHKIND, P.A. at 561 835 9091 or click on the Firm’s web site at www.familylawwpb.com for more information.