If You’re In Abusive Relationship, Get Out Now

By Robin Roshkind, Esquire, West Palm Beach, Florida

Although I am a divorce lawyer in Palm Beach County, Florida, I often think I could have been a therapist.  In dealing with legal issues of divorce matters, I often counsel my clients to help them to feel better about their decision , because divorce is not easy under the best of circumstances.

If you think you are being abused in your marriage, your recourse is 1) to get counseling to fix the problem, or 2) get out before the situation escalates.  Here are some tips to determine whether or not you should file for divorce immediately:

1.  If your spouse isolates you from friends and family.

2.  If your spouse is verbally demeaning, puts you down in front of people (even your children),  ridicules you, constantly critisizes at every turn, you can never do anything right,  bullies you, or purposely embarrases you.

3.  If your spouse blames everyone (mostly you) for all of his/her bad fortune.  It’s never his/her fault.

4.  If your spouse is jealous of you, what you do, who you are with, your time away from him/her.

5.  If you have a parent/child or master/servant relationship and you are the child or servant, you are being abused.

6.  If your spouse threatens you with leaving, hurting you or your children, cutting you off financially, or uses fear to control you, time to flee.

7.  If your spouse is an addict of any kind, i.e. illegal or prescription drugs, alcoholic, sex, shopping, gambling, internet surfing, or any other addiction, it is at YOUR expense emotionally.

8.  If you catch your spouse cheating on you or spying on you.

9.  Of course physical violence is the holy grail of abusers.  Get out while you still can before anyone gets hurt.

For more information about divorce topics, call one of the divorce lawyers at ROBIN ROSHKIND, P.A. at 561 835 9091 or click on the Firm’s web site at www.familylawwpb.com for more information.

How To Handle Debt In Palm Beach County Divorces

By Robin Roshkind, Esquire, West Palm Beach, Florida

There are many forms of marital debt:  credit cards, mortgages, car loans, home equity lines of credit, business debt, and loans from parents and others.

It can be a complex exercise to equitably divide up the marital debt.  What if the couple have been living separate and apart for two y ears?  What if the marital home is under water in terms of loan to value?  What if one car is paid for and the other is not?

There are many issues involving debt and divorce.  The best advice I can give you is to know what your financial situation is and then consult with one of the divorce lawyers at ROBIN ROSHKIND, P.A. on how to resolve the debt issues in a divorce situation.  Call for a consultation at 561 835 9091 or click on the Firm’s web site at http://www.familylawwpb.com for more information.

Addictions And Divorce Law In Florida

By Robin Roshkind, Esquire, West Palm Beach, Florida

When a husband or wife has an addiction, often times spouses look the other way.  Until a divorce is in progress.  There is a legal significance to addictive behavior in the State of Florida.

It does not matter whether the addiction is to alcohol, drugs, sex, shopping, anger, gambling, job hopping, collecting, hoarding, or any other addiction.  In Florida divorce courts, it all comes down to marital money, marital waste, or what’s called dissipation of marital assets.

For example, if your husband has squandered money in Vegas, you have a claim for dissipation of marital assets.  Or if your wife spends endlessly at the mall, you have a claim for dissipation of marital assets.

For more information about this or other divorce topics, call one of the divorce lawyers at ROBIN ROSHKIND, P.A. at 561 835 9091 or click on the Firm’s web site at http://www.familylawwpb.com  for more information.