By Robin Roshkind, Esquire, West Palm Beach, Florida
It is Saturday night…instead of dinner and a movie, your spouse says to you “I am going out, don’t wait up”. Or you find yourself in sweat pants and disheleved from the day, and you are doing a laundry.
Or maybe you shipped the kids out to a friend for the night and all your spouse wants to do is watch TV. Alone. Or worst case scenario, you end up in a fight. If any of this happens repeatedly, you have to know that something is wrong in the marriage.
The question is what to do about it… Here is the advice of a divorce attorney who is experienced in these sort of things.
1. Avoid domestic violence. If you find yourself in a heated argument, go walk the dog or go visit a friend for an hour. Just get out of the house for a while to let things cool down.
2. Realize the marriage is broken. You have two optionns: bail or fix it.
3. Start seeing yourself as an individual. Perhaps your needs are not being met, whether they are physical or emotional or financial.
4. Protect yourself. Have credit cards in your own name; set up a cell phone account of your own; get a post office box for your personal mail; keep a lock on your computer; know at all times where the keys to your car are; remove personal papers and small jewelry from the house.
5. See a divorce lawyer to learn your rights. If you have any inkling that the marriage is in trouble, find out what your rights are under the law and the specific facts of your marriage.
6. Don’t listen to friends and family. Every marriage is different.
For more information about this or any other family law related subject, call one of the divorce lawyers at Robin Roshkind, P.A. at 561-835-9091 or click on the Firm’s web site at http://www.familylawwpb.com.