by Robin Roshkind, Esquire, West Palm Beach, Florida
I once heard a divorce court judge address a courtroom full of lawyers, husbands and wives, court reporters and spectators, and what he said will never leave my memory…he said something to the effect that, this is divorce court.. everyone is lying.
Appraisers can place valuations of heirlooms to real estate to benefit the party who hires them…accountants can make the numbers say anything they want to…lawyers can interpret statutes and case law from their ownone sided perspectives…financial affidavits of husbands and wives generally and regretably leave something off the asset column. One can conclude divorce court is not an exact science.
So how do you reconcile the difficulties of litigation? The first and best answer is to stay out of court. At least in settlement talks the parties can determine their own destinies, like it or not. The next best step is zealous advocacy. Hire professionals who really on are your side and are dedicated to doing the best job possible for you. This includes the accountant, the lawyer, the appraiser, the shrink, and private eye and anyone else you need to rely upon for zealous advocacy.
Lastly, you must not have personality conflicts involved in your case. If you are not comfortable with your “team” do something about it before it is too late. You can always change attorneys, CPAs, shrinks, etc.
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